My husky was chosen by my sister, but my sister has moved out.. and she never took care of her dog. His name is Chance (the husky). So Chance is not allowed to come inside because he goes to the restroom inside. My dad told me that I do not have to clean this up as this was not my dog. He's sick of having Chance inside so he left him outside. Chance whines to come inside when it's raining and I feel really bad for him..
However, my chihuahua / terrier (Charlie) is cared for by me. I feed him, I bathe him, he sleeps in my room, when he goes to the restroom in the house I clean it up, when he makes a mess I clean it up, I do a lot. My dad only really gives attention to him when he wants to be pet (of course I pet him too, but you know what I mean). Charlie knows how to sit & stay, goes outside to go to the restroom NEARLY every time, and has lots of love from me. Charlie doesn't have a playmate, no social life, no butt-sniffing, nothing.. Chance tends to push him around to show that he's the boss of the house. I don't have the time to take Charlie to the dog park as I don't drive & my dad is either busy with work or i'm busy with school or yoga, but we have a huge yard!
If I were to choose a dog, i'd get a little teacup chihuahua. Big dogs are very hard for me to take care of and I prefer little dogs. I feel like my dad is basing his opinion on if I should get another dog or not on Chance,
Update 1:
Which I do not find fair, as he is not my dog. I would take care of
Chance.. but he's gotten older and now he won't even let me pet him.
I've written out the reasons why I want a dog & the cons and pros
about getting a new dog, all of my responsibilities, etc.. My dad still
is not convinced that I should get another dog.
I have a lot of anxiety and one of my biggest fears is my dog passing away, he's getting old. (Charlie is 9 and Chance is 10). I feel like if I had another dog that I wouldn't
I have a lot of anxiety and one of my biggest fears is my dog passing away, he's getting old. (Charlie is 9 and Chance is 10). I feel like if I had another dog that I wouldn't
Update 2:
Lose everything, i'd lose part of something I love, but i'd still have support from another best friend.
I honestly don't know how else I can convince my dad. Please leave some advice for me.. No rude comments. Thank you so much in advance.
I honestly don't know how else I can convince my dad. Please leave some advice for me.. No rude comments. Thank you so much in advance.
Update 3:
I also have really great grades and keep up with schoolwork, so it's not like i'm too busy for another dog.
Update 4:
UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE!
I understa
I understa
nd that everybody is upset that my dog Chance is outside. I
have paid attention to him and I go out and pet him a lot. My dad will
not let him in the house.. I would love to bring him in and have him
inside. He was not trained, my sister said she would train him when we
got him, but never did. Charlie is trained, to sit, stay, and walk on a
leash. Do not tell me that i'm the wrong one here, I would like to have
Chance in!
Answer
Verulam:
I
don't understand all this 'her dog', 'my dog' stuff - these two dogs
are FAMILY DOGS and as such, it should be anybody in the family who
looks after the dog. Further, I don't understand at all why getting a
third dog is going to do anything other than bring another innocent dog
into this already difficult situation.
I'd also suggest, like others, that if the Husky isn't being able to live in with the family, or being looked after if he has to live out (proper kennelling, adequate exercise etc?) then you all find a good home for the Husky where he can be living a decent life.
You dad is right - no third dog!!
I'd also suggest, like others, that if the Husky isn't being able to live in with the family, or being looked after if he has to live out (proper kennelling, adequate exercise etc?) then you all find a good home for the Husky where he can be living a decent life.
You dad is right - no third dog!!
Rahel:
You
don't need another dog, you need to train the ones you already have.
There are lot's of YouTube videos on it. I guarantee that if you can
train both of your dogs and housebreak Chance, you would be much
happier, and if you still wanted another dog, your father might change
his mind because he sees you as a much more responsible owner.
Try
taking your dogs for a walk at least four times a week. A husky
especially needs a lot of exercise. And if your dad still won't let
Chance in the house, build her a doghouse that has enough room for a bed
and food and water bowls. Maybe even some toys.
Johan:
I think you need to get a clearer perspective on taking care of BOTH dogs.
Chance is still a family dog, it's just that he has a different temperment and personality (just like humans do). Also, he was not properly trained when he was younger, that's why he doesn't know the rules in the house.
Chance is still a family dog, it's just that he has a different temperment and personality (just like humans do). Also, he was not properly trained when he was younger, that's why he doesn't know the rules in the house.
Perhaps if you can manage to potty train BOTH Chance
and Charlie to go to the bathroom OUTSIDE the house, then your dad will
see you as a more mature and responsible owner. Maybe then he would be
more willing to consider adding a new pet.
Lakelady:
You need to save chance. Take him over and housebreak him. What your
dad is doing is SO wrong. Huskies are not the easiest breed in the world
but they are smart and can easily be housebroken when you find their
key. Sounds like Chance's is being allowed back in with the family. Use
it. Once Chance is trained your chances of getting your own dog
skyrocket. Poor Chance and shame on your sister, and you and your dad as
well. If you don't help Chance you don't deserve another dog. Ever.
Jack:
You
don't. You have one dog who's neglected and ignored, that no one has
bothered to train. That's cruel to just leave him outside. You have in
indoor dog that no one has bothered to train and no one exercise.
Dogs are a huge responsibility, meaning we have to give up a LOT to
properly train and housebreak them.
You don't need another dog, you
need to do more with the pets you already have. Check in to a
reputable Husky rescue for that poor dog, and get the one you have
properly trained. An adult dog should not be making messes in the house -
ever. At that point, and only then, should you even consider getting
another dog. And understand that would be the end of the after school
activities, as you have responsibilities when you have a dog.
Dogs don't need a social life with another dog, they need their human to play with them, walk them, train them and so on. Another dog you don't take care of is not the answer.
Dogs don't need a social life with another dog, they need their human to play with them, walk them, train them and so on. Another dog you don't take care of is not the answer.
Greyhound:
If
you don't have the time now to play with, walk or train Chance - your
family's husky - who NEEDS some exercise and a friend badly....
Where are you going to find the time to train a new dog?
Chance could be an AMAZING dog if someone would spend time with him! Teach him to pull you on your bike - like I did with my Husky. We would go miles and it was great fun.
You don't need another dog - you need to spend MORE time with the ones you already have.
There is a dog in your yard that with some training could be your best friend.
Where are you going to find the time to train a new dog?
Chance could be an AMAZING dog if someone would spend time with him! Teach him to pull you on your bike - like I did with my Husky. We would go miles and it was great fun.
You don't need another dog - you need to spend MORE time with the ones you already have.
There is a dog in your yard that with some training could be your best friend.
Reza:
I
would say that if you both aren't really happy with chance or willing
to train him or anything, give him to someone who will. Training is
important, especially for large dogs, and I'm sure there's a family out
there willing to train him and keep him in their house.
Keeping dogs
outside all the time can be bad for the dog most places it's even
illegal to leave a dog outside without some kind of cover from the
elements - so a doghouse - so if you're leaving him outside with no
cover that's animal abuse.
But yeah if neither of you really spend time with the husky or want him I'd suggest selling him or giving him to a good home because I'm sure he wants love and attention just as much as your chihuahua. Plus your dad might consider letting you get a dog yourself if you get rid of the husky.
But yeah if neither of you really spend time with the husky or want him I'd suggest selling him or giving him to a good home because I'm sure he wants love and attention just as much as your chihuahua. Plus your dad might consider letting you get a dog yourself if you get rid of the husky.
Nekkid:
But
the opinion of whether to get a third dog or not IS based on your
current dogs. You have an untrained do GB who isn't getting enough
training or socialization, who sits outside alone. You don't need a
third dig when you have one who is essentially neglected already
Life isn't about "fair"
It isn't "fair" that change is neglected just because no one wants to train him. So, he isn't a cute wittle purse dog. Your family has NO business getting a 3rd dog when one is still sitting outside neglected.
Life isn't about "fair"
It isn't "fair" that change is neglected just because no one wants to train him. So, he isn't a cute wittle purse dog. Your family has NO business getting a 3rd dog when one is still sitting outside neglected.
Nobby:
Comments you dont like are not rude. Its not fair to leave a dog whining outside.
Rehome the poor thing then think about getting another.
And learn how to house train both dogs. You just take them to their toilet spot once an hour and reward them for using it.
Rehome the poor thing then think about getting another.
And learn how to house train both dogs. You just take them to their toilet spot once an hour and reward them for using it.
Nobby:
You
have one dog in the house that wasn't trained properly and no one gives
a crap about. Yet, you want another dog in the house, This is so
selfish, ignorant, short sighted, that I really can't even comprehend
the thought process.