It arches it's back and rubs around my legs purring, it's a rag doll cat and when I pet it it doesn't seem to want me to do that
Answer
Rosa:
Always
allow your cat to sniff your hand before attempting to pet it. Don't
stare in their eyes too much, blink slowly at them and the cat should
reply (means "I'm not here for a fight") if the cat blinks and turns it
head away leave them in peace because they just want to ignore you right
now, if you touch they may complain bite or scratch.
Cats usually
despise surprises, avoid making it jump with the petting or it won't
trust you. Rag dolls are usually pretty affectionate at their own pace.
The rubbing is scent marking behaviour, and cats often do this while
bothering their owners for food, or just as affection.
Greg:
I'm kinda surprised at the answer that you awarded "best" to.
Kitty is simply hugging you.
Kitty is simply hugging you.
Yeah yeah yeah I'm familiar with the whole "cat is marking you" explanation, which I myself do believe, but again I just refer to that behavior as kitty hugs. And because I'm bigger than every cat I've ever or will ever own, I decide when and how it's gonna be pet.
If Sage
doesn't like it she's free to leave and sit/lay/play/hangout elsewhere.
The arrangement has worked for Sage and I and all Kitties I've had
before Her, including Jennifur, her son Fatty, Scraps and her brother
Little Man. And it will also work when I get the classic tabby I want
that'll be named Zappa.
Hearth-O-Gold:
Every cat has its own personality and preferences. When cats rub you
they are marking you with their scent, basically "claiming" you. This
cat may need to warm up to you, possibly over days or weeks, before it
will relax and let you pet it.
If you want to get to a petting place
with the cat try just putting your hand close to it next time it is
rubbing your legs. If it starts to rub your hand then you can
gradually, at the cats pace, start to pet it.
Cabbie:
What's the question? When a cat rubs on your legs it's covering you
with it's scent, basically telling other cats "this human is my human".
Your cat just might not like being touched - that doesn't mean it's not
affectionate, it just means it doesn't like the feeling of being
touched.